Yesterday my house was broken into during broad daylight. My dead-bolted antique door with the lead glass was busted down by the foot of some cowardly hoodlum. Inside they rummaged through everything in the house, every drawer, closet, cupboard. The thieves took off with my two laptops, my wedding ring and most importantly my nana’s diamond ring…all in all they robbed me of $10,000 worth of my personal belongings.
I’m in shock. I’m scared. I’m trying to put on a brave face for the kids but I am literally beside myself with fear. I’m trying to comfort myself with the fact that it could’ve been worse or that nobody was hurt, but I can’t help feeling like I’ve been violated in the most personal way.
The police were called, fingerprints taken and all I can do now is pray that something shows up at a pawn shop or that they catch the thief…but all of that is doing little to unrattle my nerves.
Thank you for your support for those that have emailed me. I may be off for a little bit today to decompress, but I will be back!
I am so sorry that this had to happen to you & your family! Thinking of all of you and hoping that these idiots make a stupid move like going to a pawn shop! So sorry…………….
OMGG Im soo sorry chrystie:( that is sooo scary, its unreal what this world is comin too these days… I hope they find these people and u can find peace:(
I am so sorry to hear that Chrystie. I know how you feel. I still to this day am uneasy since our house was broken into 4 years ago and thousands of dollars of items were stolen. You do feel violated and can’t believe that someone has entered into your private space. It will take some time before you will come home and not feel that worry. But you will get past it. Unfortunately there are people out there that just think of themselves and not the lives that they affect with the actions they take. I hope they catch them.
So sorry Christy, my thoughts are with u and your kiddos, always available to lend an ear!
I’m so sorry to hear this! I hope they catch the bastard(s)!!! Thinking and praying for you and your family.
Oh wow!! Sorry about that!! You should have those feelings… we need to feel safe in our homes.. I pray they catch them, bring you some peace and comfort…
I am so very sorry….this has to be very hard. HUGS !
im so very sorry that happened to you. I cant even imagine what that must feel like. hope they catch whoever did it.
Awwwe, Chrystie…I’m so sorry. That is horrible! Like you stated, thankfully you were all safe and nobody was harmed, but some of the items stolen from you have sentimental value and private things. I am praying the the authorities are able to do their job and find those F%^&*^%rs! Thinking of you, ~Carla Daley
Our home was broken into over and over when I was a kid. It does something to you. Hugs.
That’s terrible!! I’m so sorry!! You do so much for other people- karma’s bound to help you out :)
I’ve been there..One of my son’s schoolmates broke into our house while we were on a trip. The ipods and electronics were a bummer but losing the items that have “meaning” was rough..they took my class ring, my husband’s grandfather’s pocketwatch and a 21 diamond ring that my mother in law gave me that her husband gave to her on valentines day in 1976. They never found my stuff (thank pawn shops in Vegas-one on every corner) but my son definitely beat the you know what out of the kid-worst part Vegas cops couldn’t prove anything since the kid didn’t have the stuff but the kid was bragging about it at school
Praying for you and your childerns safety and that your nerves be calmed and your stuff be recovered. You never think that things like that happen to us people here in Maine but this just goes to show that it does. Hope everything turns out ok and that the people who did this will be appropreitly punished.
OMG I am so sorry , thats a feeling i wouldnt wish on any one and you r right cowards ..
Oh my goodness I feel sooo bad for you! while it sucks laptops are replaceable but the rings are something dear to you that can never be replaced! that is just awful that people do such things! But a little bit of bright side…at least they didn’t touch you stockpile(s) lol :) keep your head up in this hard time! stay strong for your two beautiful little kids..don’t let these stupid robbers get to you and make you miserable! Take your time off we will survive! we understand :) My prayers are with you!!!
I am sorry that you and your family had to experience such a horrible thing, I know how you feel, I have been there also, Your family is in my prayers and in Jesus name I pray that the person who did this you be caught and that your valuables are returned to you. And above all, that you and your family have no more fear.
OH NO that is horrible. I am so sorry that happened to you. (((HUGS))) Hope they catch the thief!
Wow Chrystie, hang in there, I’m so sorry this happened to you :-( I’m sending positive thoughts and energy your way, in hopes that each day will bring a bit more ease to you. Please know Karma is a wonderful thing and you are a good person, I am hoping for you that this may mean that justice will be served to these punks (although it can never get back the uneasy violated feeling you have). Much Love, Lindsay Bragdon xoxo
I am in NH and the same thing happened to me last week . To come into your own house and find that some stranger has gone thru all of your drawers and personal belongings is a very frightening feeling indeed. I am still trying to figure out what is actually missing, it seems they were looking for cash and perscription drugs. ( I do not keep anything valuable at home) I would suggest that you get yourself a safe deposit box and from now on put anything of any value in it . Hugs to you I know exactly how you feel.
I am so sorry for you! Praying for you and your children. I hope they catch the dirtbags that did this! I am glad everyone is safe and this is a terrible thing but Thank God for that, it is the most important! **HUGS**
So sorry to hear about this – so scary for you. The secure, safe place you call home has been violated and that is unforgivable. Hopefully they catch whoever did this and you at least recover those things that were most precious to you.
Oh No! :( So sorry. That sucks.
I’m so sorry hon. But try to remember this. they robbed you because you WEREN’T home. They aren’t going to show up when someone is actually home who could identify them. shows what kind of slime ball cowards they are. Be safe dear, my prayers are with you.
I am so sorry Chrystie!!! It is very scary, at the end of the day though all you can be thankful for is you werent home when it happen!!! Robberies are running ramped….. My inlaws house was broken into as well….. The only time I am ever thankful for owning a German Shepherd that was rip someones flesh off if they come in the house without my husband or I letting them in.
so sorry to hear that. sometimes I just hate people, especially those who think its their right to steal from others. its hard to to feel violated. I’m glad that you and your family are safe.
I am so sorry. I hope you soon find peace and comfort, although it will take time. What a good mom to keep a brave face. With all the good karma you send through your smile and couponing tips, I hope good karma comes back to you tenfold.
I am so sorry to hear this, in 2010, just after I found out I was expecting my first baby, we were broken into as well. I never felt less secure in my life and immediately wanted to move. My laptop loaded with priceless photos, (that I never had backed up-will not make that mistake again,) was among the stolen items as well. Since the break in my husband and I have documented all of our important items and have taken security way more seriously! Good luck to you! :(
So so sorry!! I can’t believe people are doing this!! What nerve to come into someone else’s house and take things that aren’t theirs!! I so hope they get caught!!!
Oh no, I am so sorry to hear that! Terrible. I hope they find the perp and your items.
That’s so awful. This happened to us, in broad daylight as well & my husband was upstairs napping and woke up to find the thief. I was at a bridal shower with my kids (thank GOD) and of all things, my husband called ME to say someone’s in the house. I was close to home, so left the kids at the event and pulled in the driveway to see my hubby carrying the creep out of the house by his NECK! I called 911 on the way to my house, so the Sheriff was pulling in right behind me. I seriously though my husband was going to kill the guy…it was just unreal. Unfortunately/fortunately, we knew the thief and he was put in prison. (small town)
To help our kids get through the nightmare, we made a big deal out of new door locks, and bought them funky colored keys with really cool keychains. The kids were middle school age. We also did a bit of counseling for each of them, just to make sure they processed this situation ok. Some police departments have an education person that could come to your house and talk about safety plans, too.
So do whatever you need to do, to feel safe. Change locks, get an alarm system, a large dog…whatever. We now have 2 blabblermouth fluff dogs – but I don’t care – barking is a warning!
Thinking of you.
Jackie
oh, I am SO sorry! I was robbed back in college…. my boyfriend and I were in bed, the robbers were RIGHT NEXT TO OUR bed – and they stole the brand new watch I had just bought for my boyfriend for xmas. So scary and so hard not to feel violated. But remember, it was not personal, it was for things they can sell to get cash. Hugs, it’s not fun :(
I am so sorry to hear about this! I had my car window broken and things stolen from my car a few years ago and I felt so violated and hurt, I can’t even imagine how you must be feeling right now. We have had a lot of break-ins recently in the Bangor area as well, I have no idea what is going through people’s heads lately! I hope they catch the scum that did this to you.
So sorry to hear about what happened. Thank God everyone is ok. Sending prayers your way:) Just some really sick people in this world, hope they catch whoever did it and you get your stuff back!!!
It disgusts that people can violate another person in this way. I am so terribly sorry about this and I hope that they are caught and punished for this crime. Good Luck to you and keep yourself surrounded by things and people that make you feel happy and safe.
WOW! How horrible! I am so sorry this happened. :(
Show no mercy when they are caught! Hang in there!
Oh Crystie! I’m soooo sorry to hear this! :( I hope the police catch the b*stards!
Oh Christy, I am so very sorry for what has happened to you. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your children. I pray that you get your’s and your nana’s wedding rings back.
I am so very sorry that this had to happen to someone as wonderful as you Chyrstie.You have become such a part of our daily lives that it feels like you are a member of our families and when you hurt we hurt for you.If their is anything that I can do to help you through this in anyway Please let me know.You and your family are in my thoughts.
omg I am so sorry. Has happened to me also and my in-laws, we did get most of the items back so don’t give up hope. The violation feeling is very real and hard to overcome. Prayers are with you. Glad your family is safe.
I saw Ashley’s post about this yesterday and I’m so absolutely sad and frightened for you! I can’t imagine how violating it must feel to know that someone has been in your personal safe haven. I’m so sorry that you and your family have to go through this trauma. Thinking positive thoughts for you and hoping that your valuables turn up!
CC, I am so sorry to hear about the ordeal that you and your family are experiencing! It is horrible to think someone would break in and steal something that isn’t theirs! I am praying for you and for the return of your precious jewelry … those are memories that I know you never wanted to depart from. Keep positive and just keep praying!
So very sorry this happened to you.
That is so sad to hear..Try to rest today and take care of yourself..Will see you when you come back on..
Oh Chrystie! I am so sorry! like the others who I written, I am sorry that this happened to you and your family. So glad that nobody was hurt. I hope that you will get all of your precious things back. Please take at much time that you need for yourself. That is most important. We will be here when you come back online! Stay positive. and Leslie is right… all of the great help/karma that you have given to sooo many people will definitely come back to you!
Soooo sorry to hear you are going through this right now…it’s unnerving to hear about something like that happening in this area. We had some break ins in our neighborhood recently and it’s scary to think they are doing it during the middle of the day. I can’t imagine what you feel like…my car got broken into last year (in my driveway) and I felt so violated….can’t imagine how I’d feel if it were my house. We like to think Maine is a safe place to live, but I guess this stuff happens everywhere. I’ll be praying that they at least recover your rings, if not everything else. <3
Wow Chrystie, I am so sorry this hapepn. No we don’t ever realized that it could happen, and espically broad daylight. Hope they do find them. Or someone saw something.
Oh no!! I am so sorry. Must be a terrible feeling having someone go through all your stuff, and get away with some of your most prized possessions. Hope your wedding ring and grandmother’s ring turns up soon. Be strong and brave – you have all of our support :) Hope they catch the bastards who did this.
HOLY COW! You tend to think that this stuff wouldn’t happen in little ol’ Maine, but it’s really a sign of the times, isn’t it! Hug your little muffins close!
I’m so sorry to hear that.. Take a deep breath… Everything will be alright…Hope the police will be able to find something soon…
So sorry you are having to go through this. Saying a prayer for u
I know exactly what you are going through, unfortunately…Our home was robbed several years ago. Thankfully, the thief was not destructive–just took my laptop, my son’s wallet and some of my jewelry (about $10,000 worth of stuff). He was caught and is in jail and was charged with 30 other robberies. Some of the jewelry and my laptop were recovered, so there is hope that you may get some of your things back. My advice to you is to gather any photos and/or any kind of identification for what was taken because that is how I got some of my items back. But, prepare yourself for the process–I had to deal with 3 different town police stations and the sheriff’s office to track down the photos and/or items of things that were recovered…Also, don’t assume that your case is at the top of their priority list…Keep following up on this with the police. Do go to some pawn shops and look for yourself–you never know what you might find…Good Luck and I wish you the best in getting your peace of mind back :)
So sorry for you and your family, my family has been robbed 3 times and I know how hard it is to shake the feeling that youve been violated! We feel so safe here in Maine but there are bad people everywhere. Thank god no one was hurt! Wishing you and your family peace and safety.
Oh my goodness…I am so sorry this happen to you and your family:-( I am glad everyone is alright.Sending positive thoughts your way!
Thank God you and your family were not injured! I’m praying your emotional wounds will heal and you’ll once again feel safe in your home. Love and Peace, Leigh Ann
I was in the process of moving down south and put all my valuable items in a locked storage unit. I lost everything. I returned home with the same feelings you have now. To this day I get depressed when something makes me think of what I lost. People say they are only material things, but they were memories of years of my life. I changed the locks on my house, changed banks, secured my house thru a security system and still live wondering about identity thieft. I do not wish this on anyone. My prayers are with you.
Chrystie
I”m so sorry to hear about this. I hope you find much needed peace and comfort for you and your family.
Got any pictures of the rings? I’ll keep an eye out at my local pawn shops in case they turn up
Don’t be afraid. They got what they want and they’re not coming back. Hugs.
Ohhh my! I am happy to hear nobody was hurt. We recently had both our vehicles broken into. They stole everything! All my Christmas Gift cards, ID, Kids health card ect. I felt awful and know exactly how you feel…..I wish you the best Christie!! Love, Threemonkeys SD.
oh no…i am so sorry….this is awful…yes, i had some personal and valuable stuff stolen from my car in Florida once and it does leave you shaken; you can’t help feel victimized and afraid. Take some time off the site if you need; there is after all (omg can I say it) more to life than couponing…hang in there, my prayers sent your way
rach
I’m so sorry, Chrystie. My car was broken into a few years back and I, too, felt violated . . . and it was just my car. I couldn’t imagine if my house was broken into. It will take some time for you to get over this but I know you are a strong woman and you can get through anything you put your mind to. Just look how far you have come in the past few years, you own your own company, your incredible at saving money with coupons, and you have two beautiful children that adore you. I met you at the coupon seminar you had in Lewiston last year and I can tell that you are a very strong woman. Hang in there and I hope everything works out for you. Lynne